This statement is so true. The first question, "how could he/she?" If you were in  a similar circumstance then I have some news for you. The answer to that question is because they enjoy control over you. Narcissistic people love the power of feeling like they are in control. They are only into themselves and get power and energy by hurting others, but manipulating you into staying with them anyways. If you are in this situation... well, take my own personal advice from my own situation. RUN. People like that will only hurt you, and if you stay they will probably get worse. I know my situation did... It went from mental to mental/verbal to mental/verbal/physical. If it hasn't gotten that far then please escape it before it gets that bad. If they are that bad then please run before it is too late. Make it out alive, and I say that with all seriousness.  People like this just get more and more dangerous.

     The second question, "What did I do wrong?" My hunnies you did nothing wrong. Absolutely nothing. They want you to believe that you did something wrong so that you fall to their knees begging them for forgiveness. It's almost as though they want you to worship everything about them. DONT! You are giving them more power to hurt you and hurt other people. Don't give them that control. Be stronger than them. I will be here every step of the way for those who need me. I will help you through this. You can trust me because I had to be ripped out of a toxic situation that I would have continued to be in if it weren't for my family and closest friends. They saved my life. If not from him, they saved me from myself. If you are reading this then I want to tell you it's gonna be okay. And don't say it won't because I am promising you that it will. If you are like me I would be saying I can't trust anybody, but please trust me. I believe in you. I trust that you can get through this. It will be okay. Get a good cry out. Scream if you have to. Then follow this advice. In the end it's gonna be okay and I will be here for you every step of your individual journeys.